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When it comes to the online world, we spend so much time perfecting the outward view that people view us from. This is really just a fancy way of me saying people do seem to care what you look like. Is my eyeliner too much? Does my hair look a little thin? How many chins are present in this image? Therefore, something as simple as taking a selfie can be utterly descriptive of our personality and lifestyle choices. I’m here to give you the lowdown of how to take the perfect selfie and shine like the beautiful diamond you are (with all your glorious chins!)
The absolute main secret to a good selfie is confidence. Seems so trivial doesn’t it? It’s something we all struggle with. But if you’re wanting to showcase your best self, whether that be for some no strings dating fun or for a little pick me up, confidence is key to a perfect selfie.
So let’s get started:
What makes you unique?
So firstly, let’s have a little think about what makes us in particular unique? Do you have a birth mark? Dimples? Long lashes? Freckles? These are all defining features to your looks. I have freckles, hooded eyes and a couple of birth marks on my face that I think really help identify me and my look. Now, I’ll never suggest you hide these, because these are what makes you, you! So embrace them, be confident and proud of those defining features and the message will quickly translate into your image.
What do you love about yourself?
Find something you love about yourself and exaggerate it! Think your eyes are fierce? FANTASTIC. Then let’s make sure they’re the star of the selfie. A little tip to make your eyes POP is to look just a little bit above the lens, it really opens them up.
If you’re a huge fan of your hair, then why not showcase it off? Create a beautiful do to work for your image and you’ll soon be translating the message of your radiance!
Know and work your angles missy!!! It’s easy to do a little practice run in front of the mirror!
It’s ok to be whoever you want to be
If you like lots of coloured eyeshadows, then brilliant you work it girl. Please don’t hold back on your own personal style and play it safe. By showcasing your personality you’re bound to stand out and have those DM’s coming in.
Here’s my selfie check list:
- Am I using natural light or an artificial ring light in order to showcase all of my face and features?
- Have I got for a statement bold lip as I would usually in order to represent who I am and what I’m about?
- Do I feel confident and comfortable? If not, let’s try another day!
- Am I myself happy with the image before posting?
Whether you are using this for your social media, an adult dating site, or you just wanna send a cheeky snap to your partner, then you rock it!!!
So go on! Take a selfie, I’d love to see you looking your most beautiful self!
Violet x



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