*This post is sponsored by Devon Dating, but all words and opinions are my own
After the year we’ve had, is it really all surprising that video dates are on the up? With bars and restaurants opening up again, some people are still opting for video dates and I’m all for it. The flexibility, ability to wear pjs on the bottom and the choice to ‘end call’ when it isn’t going to plan do all sound more tempting that an awkward in person encounter. So, whether you’re trying video speed dating (yes it’s a thing) or you’re on a regular date with your current catch then here are 5 tips for video dating that might just help that date be a huge success.
Choose your date time carefully
You may be a career focussed, hard-working boss who needs as much time in the day to get their business running successfully. Don’t be thinking you can squeeze a relaxing date in between intense business meetings. It’s a no from me. Try to find some time where you’re relaxed and feeling comfortable. The atmosphere will be so much nicer if you’ve set aside time to focus on your date.
Check your Connection
This is the very basics of video dating. When you’re getting set up for a call you want to make sure you’re internet connection is spot on. Check your whole set up. Are you happy with the camera angle? It’s also important to assess any safety issues such as envelopes in the background with your address on. If you’re dating via Devon Dating, they offer some online protection and safety advice to help you get set up and ready for that first date.
Wear something memorable
Going back to my point about video speed dating. It can really help to wear something that’s a little bit memorable and helps you stand out. I’m not saying go full halloween costume but a cheeky polka dress that makes you feel great? Yup. Or maybe a bold lipstick that makes you feel confident and sassy? That’s what it’s all about. Devon Dating Site are encouraging you to feel confident (even set up in your living room)… what’s comfier than that?
Come up with a game plan
As with any video meeting, there can be moments of awkward silence. You can avoid this by coming up with some ‘prompts’ to keep the conversation flowing. Ask about their life, what they enjoy, worst dates and if all fails… play a bit of online scrabble or draw something to get you both to let down the walls and loosen up. The most important thing is to have fun.
Don’t overthink it
Most importantly, (as with any date) whether online or in person, is to not overthink the situation. We can be our own worst critics when it comes to dating and we have to stop. Just turn up as your usual self and make sure you have a fun evening regardless of the scenario. Hey, if it’s not love, you might just find a new best mate.
So how are you feeling about that online date now? If you’ve any further tips to share pop them below!
Violet x
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